As parents, most want their children to fall in love with learning and excel among their peers.
How to adjust a child's mentality to make him or her learn spontaneously and curate a love for learning?
ILK Learning introduces 4 tips to help your children fall in love with learning naturally, instead of forcing them to.
Everyone's learning preferences are different. Parents can spend more time observing their children's learning habits, especially in the following aspects:
In addition, the time of study is also very important. Find out the time slot when the child is more energetic and could concentrate the best. The most basic concept is to distinguish between a "morning person " and "a night owl". Be aware of whether your child will be more energetic in the morning or the evening! Often parents would prefer their children to go to bed early and rise early, but studies have shown that chronotype is largely determined by genetics, and it also affects children's emotional performance.
One of the most influential learning strategies is "distributed practice" - in addition to completing daily homework, try arranging the learning period of the same subject at different times of the week. It would be most ideal if the child would touch on every academic subject within a week. For example, he or she can spend 15 minutes reviewing English grammar everyday, and then finish a few additional Mathematics problems. After a week, the overall learning hours of children may still be similar, but they are exposed to all subjects in a short period.
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Are you still asking your children to sit at the desk obediently and study quietly with the textbooks every day after school?
Let's think from children's perspectives: Every day from morning to afternoon in class, they are all required to sit in a dreadful classroom and absorb knowledge from books. Similar to adults at work - if they continue this way of learning at home or in a tutorial class, their "working hours" will be longer than any of us at work!
Be creative and discover more interesting ways of learning! You can experiment with multiple learning methods with your children, such as mini-games, concept maps/mind maps, quizzes, and even music, to make learning extra fun.
Take my personal experience as an example. As a liberal arts student, I often need to memorize course content. Among all of the subjects, revising for History is the most terrifying. Before an important exam, I sat at my desk alone with pressure piling up. I turned to my stuffed animals on the bed and "educated" them about the complicated relationship between the United States and Russia during the Cold War. I was surprised that the method of "giving a lesson" turned out to be extremely effective. This learning method not only helps with memorizing. Students can also easily discover the parts they have missed or are not familiar with in the process of explanation, meanwhile adding some fun to the dull learning time.
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In a highly competitive society like Hong Kong, most parents have a strong comparative mentality. When faced with what a child does, everyone often judges it according to social standards and the eyes of others, rather than against the child’s unique personality and needs. This is called "reference standard" in theory, but it secretly hinders many children's learning process or affects their emotional management because of scolding.
As the saying goes: "Nobody is perfect." What's more is that learning from mistakes is, in fact, the most efficient way to learn! Making mistakes will reveal your child’s weaknesses in learning, allowing improvement accordingly. Moreover, from experience, the lessons after making a mistake are the best reminders to avoid future mistakes!
Therefore, the next time your child makes a mistake, instead of scolding them right away, you should discuss the mistake with them and encourage them so that failure could turn into the foundation of success!
To break the cycle of normal, dull studying, parents should give children more opportunities to utilize their knowledge. Look for teaching materials and "tests" in everyday life, so that they can see the relationship between learning and themselves.
Is the child studying geography recently? Why not go for a parent-child outing, have some fresh air and check out the magical landscape of Hong Kong!
Does your child struggle with arithmetics? After class, go to the supermarket as a family and calculate the total spend according to the unit price. Let him or her use Mathematics skills to be a shopping assistant! After returning home, ask your children to help prepare cooking ingredients with knowledge of measurement units.
Finding reciting English words challenging? Parents can play English songs and hum with their children. Reading a storybook in English before going to bed helps to improve sleep quality and facilitates learning as well!
If your children are more mature and the subjects get more complicated after being promoted to secondary school, you can try to link learning to their daily surroundings.
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Only after children have experienced the joy of learning, can they have a chance to truly fall in love with it. Parents can play the role of guidance and inspiration to help children develop an interest in learning.
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